"That's true.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kY3HbxGU6D8&feature=related

But it wouldn't be my world without you in it."

Sisterhood

Você sabe, amiga, estarei do seu lado pra sempre. E aquele que te machucar não merece suas lágrimas. Amiga, você é linda. Não tem mais nada que possa ser dito. A vida brinca conosco, testa nossa paciência. Tudo acontece na hora errada. Não, só parece acontecer. Na verdade, por mais clichê que seja, amiga, está tudo na hora certa. Você precisa de alguém agora para estar do seu lado, e eu preciso de você para ultrapassar meus medos. Estamos juntas, amiga. Depois de tanto tempo parecendo cada vez mais distantes, retomamos da onde paramos. Voltamos a nos dar as mãos, a secar as lágrimas, a fazer sorrir. Somos irmãs, inseparáveis. Como sempre fomos. Eu e você.
Sem medo. Para tudo. Para sempre.

Emotional and Exausted

You know, when you're in a position you hardly ever really consider the other side of the story. Think about it. Maybe you even think about the person's feelings but you don't take the time to put yourself on the other side.
Well, not long ago, I thought I had considered very well the other side of a very old and never-ending story. I thought wrong, for the story had, not two, but three sides. And I had only noticed two opinions, two positions, two problems. I completely ignored how that 3-problematic-years-story could have affected the third person involved. In fact, I even let myself think badly about that third person though I never took the time to analyse the impacts on him. Even if he was the best example of an egocentric person, he was egocentricly selfless and handled two insane girls very well. For that, I apologize and realize that I do, in fact, adore you for everything you did. The way you acted and who you are are the only reasons fo me still wanting to spend time with you. I see now that it must have been hard (even if it did blow your ego to the ceiling) and I see now that I underestimated you. Nothing could have kept me going and kept me believing as your hugs, your smiles, your jokes and your conforting words did.

The last few days have been.. emotional and exausting. I am aware that my only readers are concerned (specially you, C., I know). I wish things didn't happen like this, all at once and all very torturously. I wish I wasn't such a drama-queen and knew how to deal with this with class and sofistication. I wish I was Audrey Hepburn. But, reality check, I'm not. I have no clue how to act or feel or talk. I have forgoten what should and shouldn't be done. My temper has gone wild.
Honestly, if you ask me how I'm doing my answer will have to be: confused, sleepless and anxious. Anxiety that, by the way, I know will only be solved if I do exactly what people keep telling me not to do. Confused because I keep trying to track down what I said and what I did for things to turn out this way. Sleepless because my brain won't stop turning and making useless connections. Plus, I'm pretty sure my grades aren't gonna be that great at the end of the year due to my lack of concentration.
Ok, I just gave you all more reasons to worry but that was not what I was trying to do. Here's the thing.. I'm actually glad this happened, somehow. This made me realize I was completely unfair with someone that is extremely important to me and that I have abandoned a long time ago. It made me realize that person should be back in my life, not because of what I felt, but because of what I feel.
I know, I'm making things confusing. But I promise you, I'm in a state of joy, anxiety and confusion all at once. And even though my head is doing some very wrong and never-before-considered turns (like it did today), there is this huge part of me that knows everything will be fine. It's all a matter of giving everything time to settle down, distance to put things in perspective and then.. everything will be exactly how it should be once again. I know it.

P.S.: I love you, girls.
P.S.2: Sorry for the confusing, english, non-sense babbling. Just thought you'd like to know how I'm really doing. In a way that I can not show personally.

Tim Gunn and his magic world

I'm a people&arts/home&health addict. That's a confession I should not make, but oh well, I am.
And today (actually, right now) I watched an episode from the show I recently found out about that goes on at Home&Health: Tim Gunn.
I don't know about you, but I loved Tim Gunn way back from Project Runway. I mean, really, what would Heidi and all those stylists do without Tim's "make it work"? He's the soul of the show and I adored him and his very-gay-yet-powerful reactions. So,when a friend of mine showed me Tim Gunn's own TV show (creatively named Tim Gunn) I was delighted.
I've been trying to watch as many as I can because, honestly, "What not to Wear" (a.k.a. "Esquadrão da Moda") is just not doing it alone anymore. Plus, Tim Gunn really knows what he's talking about. I thought critics were critics because they couldn't do it themselves but Tim changed that thought. He definetely can do it himself. I mean, really.
So, I was watching this episode with this girl called Meredith (yeah, don't like the name either) and she is super sweet and she has the same petite body shape as I do (which never happens to me in any fashion show)! Not even considering the fact that she just moved to New York and has a very handsome-professional-looking boyfriend. Yeah, I think you got the idea, I adore Meredith.
I think this is my favourite episode ever of Tim Gunn's show. I mean, she is adorable and she had clothes that could be saved! No one ever has clothes that can be saved! She is a shoe addict, plus she actually knew how to choose fashionable presentable clothing! All the dresses she tried on looked incredible on her and Tim was oh-so-proud of her ability to identify what should not be used.
She went to what she called 'girl heaven': InStyle Magazine closet. I got to tell you this: she's right about the girl heaven. Everything in there is dreamy. She got to pick out an outfit from the closet and that never happened in any other episode. She went to a stylist's loft and tried on beatiful dresses and Laboutin shoes! Which she got to take home as a present! Who the hell gets Laboutin shoes as a present!?
And at the end of the whole show Tim Gunn himself gave her a necklace that was done just for her! Whaat? Tim Gunn giving necklaces? My world turned upside down. And it was an incredibly nice well-thought necklace! It had different pendants to stand for different things she cared for, like her boyfriend, her work, her friends, her high school cheerleading past..
And on top of all that... they flew her best-friend-for-more-than-20-years-that-was-pregnant over to see her! And they were all so happy!
(Not even gonna mention all the very useful tips they gave on makeup, underwear, clothing, prints and etc. along the episode. I'm impressed.)

Favourite-episode-ever!
Go Meredith!
Thanks Tim!

Time for What not to Wear..

Make them Smiles.

Thanks, C, now I can't stop reading these things...

"26 Ways To Make A Girl Smile:

1. Tell her she is beautiful. (not fine, or sexy)

2. Hold her hand at any moment, even if its just for a second.

3. Kiss her on the forehead.

4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.

5. When she is upset, hold her tight and tell her how much she means to you.

6. Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.

7. Pick her over all the other girls you hang out with.

8. Write her notes. (she loves them)

9. Introduce her to family and friends . . . as your girlfriend.

10. Play with her hair.

11. Pick her up, tickle her, and play-wrestle with her.

12. Sit in the park and just talk to her.

13. Tell her funny jokes, tell her stupid jokes, or just tell her jokes.

14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.

15. If she's mad at you, kiss her.

16. Give her piggyback rides.

17. Bring her flowers

18. Treat her the same around your friends as you do when your alone.

19. Look her in the eyes and smile.

20. Let her take as many pictures of you as she wants.

21. Kiss her in the rain.

22. If you're in love with her . . . tell her.

23. Call her at any time of the day or night, just to say hi and that you miss her. She will love it, and you'll score BIG points with her!

24. Remember her birthday! And get her something sweet!

25.Walk up behind her, wrap your arms around her, and give her a kiss on the cheek.

26. Finally, when she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just when ever, take it and tell her you love it, even if you don't!"

by: I-have-no-clue-who-again

PS.: Do it in any order, do all of them or just one of them. Do it!

Women Vocab.

"Nine words women use...

1.) Fine : This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up.

2.) Five Minutes : If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour.
Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.

3.) Nothing : This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in fine.

4.) Go Ahead : This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It!

5.) Loud Sigh : This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to 3 for the meaning of nothing.)

6.) That's Okay : This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.

7.) Thanks : A woman is thanking you, do not question, or faint. Just say you're welcome.

8.) Whatever : Is a women's way of saying F*** YOU!

9.) Don't worry about it, I got it: Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking 'What's wrong?' For the woman's response refer to 3."

by: I-have-no-clue-who

Barracos, barracos..

Perdoem meu vício ridículo mas por acaso alguém assistiu "The Bachelor: The Women tell all"? Passou no domingo e a reprise ontem. Claro, que eu assisti tudo, mas como sou uma idiota acabei perdendo o último bloco (E! True Hollywood Story de Friends no mesmo horário não dá!). O que aquelas mulheres desesperadas fizeram no último bloco de interessante? Fill me in if you can..
Eu só sei que nas partes que consegui assistir eu fiquei com raiva da Sarah W., impressionada com as mulheres no geral e ri muito com a capacidade da Kimberly de usar biquinis. (Será que ela possui uma única blusa?). Mas mais do que tudo isso, eu amei os barracos. Mulheres brigam de uma forma tão engraçada que é divertido assistir.
Ah, agora ao que eu realmente queria chegar.. Sexta passada, como de costume, fui ao salão perto da minha casa para fazer as unhas (esmalte caramelo, pra quem quiser, fica bem bonito). Sentei, abri meu livro, entreguei minhas mãos para a manicure e... Minha atenção foi totalmente desviada para dois dos cabeleireiros que estavam brigando ali mesmo, na frente do salão. Um com inveja do outro, a mulher chorava e o homem ficava afirmando para quem quisesse ouvir que ele estava certo. Bom, só afirmo que não deve ser nada bom para o salão, ninguem quer ir pra lá ouvir brigas, mas para relaxar.
Espero não ter que ouvir isso de novo.